SENATOR TIM LESLIE - POSITION STATEMENT RECLAIMING PARENTAL RIGHTS Senator Tim Leslie May 12, 1997 "Your children are not your children... They come to you, but they are not from you, and though they are with you, they belong not to you... You can house their bodies but not their souls... Your children belong to the future." These words are taken from a song accompanying the credits of a video presentation intended for teachers entitled, "It's Elementary: Talking About Gay Issues in School." These words view children as the property, possession and responsibility of the community. Taking a complete about-face from tradition and commonsense wherein parents delegate limited authority to the state to educate their children, we are expected to believe that parents have been graciously delegated the privilege of housing children who, in reality, belong to "the village." Reference a court decision issued last year by Texas Judge Melinda Harmon. Parents had filed suit against a local school district for a violation of parental and privacy rights when, without their knowledge or consent, their son was interrogated and physically examined by a Child Protective Services worker investigating unsubstianted abuse. The child was forced to strip for the female social worker who then instructed the boy to lie to his parents about the incident. Judge Harmon ruled against the parents with the admonishment that, "parents give up their rights when they drop off their children at a public school." In March of last year, 58 sixth grade girls in Pennsylvania were herded into a nurse's office, forced to strip and undergo a pelvic exam without parental knowledge or consent. Those girls who cried or asked permission to leave or call their parents were admonished to stop being "such babies" and were denied permission to leave or call home. Many of the eleven- and twelve-year-old girls had never undergone such an exam and were rightly traumatized by the event. A group of outraged parents filed suit against the district. The school district employees, the local medical society and many local teachers rallied to the district's defense. The physician insisted that the exams were in the interest of children and commented that, "Even a parent doesn't have the right to say what's appropriate for a physician to do when they're doing an exam." Although the case is pending, the school board voted to allow the exams again this year. Here in California, parents who had requested that their child be excused from classroom exercises incorporating values clarification, moral dilemmas, discussions of the supernatural and other non-academic instruction received a district response stating in part, "Public schools are not interested in undermining the efforts of parents or in manipulating the beliefs of their children...However, the schools are... empowered with significant discretion in setting curriculum... [T]he District does not ... require parental consent to ordinary classroom activities or teaching techniques..." Translation: "Tough luck, folks. You relinquished many of your rights at the schoolhouse door." Another angry mom called my office recently and informed my staff that, unbeknownst to her, her eleven year old daughter had been exposed to graphic depictions of heterosexual and homosexual activity at her school. Although too late for this parent and so many others, I introduced Senate Bill 1110 to require that parents receive adequate prior notification, upon student registration or by mail of guest speakers or special presentations relating to sex or family life scheduled during the school year. In their letter opposing my original bill (which required documented affirmative consent), the California Teachers Association stated that sex education must be "...judged and controlled by skilled professionals without undue influence." Well, there you go. Parents have officially been relegated to the role of "undue influence." Unbelievably, my SB 1110 may still have an uphill battle in both Houses of the Legislature, however, considering the many instances where parents' rights have been ignored or violated, ensuring sufficient notification seems the very least we can do.